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Lying and Truth Telling for Effective Communication Guide boundaries relationships self-improvement Dec 17, 2020

What lying is and how to tell the truth

Connie could tell something was wrong. Her boyfriend of 5 years seemed more distant but denied anything was going on. When she asked what was wrong, he said everything was fine. Then one day she found a stack of papers he had left out on the counter. The...

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Does He* Know Heā€™s Hurting Me? boundaries life lessons relationships Nov 06, 2020

I hear this question a lot from clients and on social media and my answer is not what you’d expect. Here’s how I think about it.

The questioner is in a relationship with someone who repeatedly violates boundaries and treats her in highly disrespectful ways. Treatment could be anything...

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