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Why Saying 'Yes' Too Often Could Be Draining Your Energy authenticity boundaries boundary setting people pleasing people-pleasers Jan 15, 2025

Have you ever found yourself agreeing to do something, only to regret it moments later? Maybe it’s taking on an extra project at work, volunteering for an event, or even saying yes to plans when all you really wanted was a quiet evening at home. It’s easy to fall into the habit of saying "yes" too o...

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How People-Pleasing Habits Are Holding You Back (and What to Do About It) authenticity boundaries people pleasing people-pleasers Dec 11, 2024

Do you pride yourself on being the “go-to” person for everyone around you? Do you bend over backward to keep others happy—even if it leaves you feeling drained or unappreciated?

While it’s natural to want to help others, people-pleasing habits can quietly damage one's mental, emotional, and even ph...

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Are You More Vulnerable to Manipulation Than You Think? Here’s What to Watch For authenticity people-pleasers self-improvement self-worth Nov 06, 2024

Have you ever walked away from a conversation with a sinking feeling, like something wasn’t right? Maybe you felt taken advantage of or manipulated but couldn't pinpoint why. This feeling can hit especially hard if you tend to give people the benefit of the doubt, trust easily, or avoid conflict. If...

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4 Strategies for Better Emotion Regulation authenticity emotional health people pleasing people-pleasers self-improvement Aug 21, 2024

Understanding Emotion Regulation: A Guide to Healthier Emotional Responses

Emotion regulation is managing and responding to emotional experiences healthily and effectively. It’s not about changing how you feel but how you respond to those feelings. This involves understanding your emotions, staying...

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Being Nice or People-Pleasing? authenticity people pleasing people-pleasers self-improvement Jul 28, 2024

Being nice and helping others should result in better relationships.

However, did you know that being overly nice or too helpful can disconnect you from those you want to be close to?

I'm not suggesting that you stop being kind, but if you find yourself constantly putting others' needs above yo...

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Master Boundaries by Using Loving Detachment boundaries emotional health people pleasing people-pleasers perspective self-improvement Jul 24, 2024

As a people-pleaser, you may constantly prioritize others' needs above your own, often at the expense of your well-being. This pattern can lead to resentment, burnout, and strained relationships.

However, a powerful concept can help you strike a balance: loving detachment.

What is Loving Detachmen...

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