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The Surprising Secret to Setting Boundaries boundaries boundary setting self-improvement Nov 20, 2024

Have you ever been told you are selfish when just trying to set a boundary? Do you worry that others think you're selfish? If you’re a people-pleaser, this label can feel like a nightmare—often enough to make you question if setting boundaries is even worth it.

But the truth is...

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Are You More Vulnerable to Manipulation Than You Think? Hereā€™s What to Watch For authenticity people-pleasers self-improvement self-worth Nov 06, 2024

Have you ever walked away from a conversation with a sinking feeling, like something wasn’t right? Maybe you felt taken advantage of or manipulated but couldn't pinpoint why. This feeling can hit especially hard if you tend to give people the benefit of the doubt, trust easily, or avoid...

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Mastering Emotion Regulation: How to Stay Calm and In Control emotion regulation emotional health people pleasing self-improvement Oct 08, 2024

We’ve all been there—caught in a frustrating situation, feeling emotions bubbling up to the surface and not knowing how to handle them. Whether it’s road rage in traffic, a stressful conversation at work, or an argument with a loved one, emotions can sometimes take over, leaving...

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What is an Inner Critic? authenticity people pleasing self-improvement self-worth Aug 31, 2024

The inner critic—those persistent, nagging thoughts that tell you "you're not good enough," "this is all your fault," or "you’ll never succeed"—isn’t a voice you were born with. Instead, it develops over time, often rooted in the experiences and environments we grow up in....

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Crush Your Inner Critic and Build Self-Trust authenticity emotional health people pleasing self-improvement self-worth Aug 29, 2024

Do you ever find yourself doubting your decisions, second-guessing your abilities, or feeling like you just aren’t good enough? Many people struggle with self-trust, and a powerful inner critic often lies at the root of this struggle. Rather than helping you improve, this internal voice can...

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4 Strategies for Better Emotion Regulation authenticity emotional health people pleasing people-pleasers self-improvement Aug 21, 2024

Understanding Emotion Regulation: A Guide to Healthier Emotional Responses

Emotion regulation is managing and responding to emotional experiences healthily and effectively. It’s not about changing how you feel but how you respond to those feelings. This involves understanding your emotions,...

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