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Secrets to Helping a Loved One Who Doesn't Want Help ama ask me anything effective communication relationships Nov 03, 2024

Dear Dr. Julie: Not sure if this is the right place for this question, but how do you help someone who doesn’t believe they need help? My adult daughter, who lives with me, has a mild intellectual disability, ADHD, and may have other genetic disorders we’re getting her tested...

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The 7 Secrets to a Passionate, Long-Lasting Relationship with Corinne Farago healthy relationships relationship advice relationship tips Oct 30, 2024

Have you ever wondered how to navigate the complexities of long-term relationships? In my latest video, I had the pleasure of speaking with Corinne Farago, a relationship and intimacy coach and author of The Turned On Couple: Your Path to Lasting Love, Passion, and Pleasure. Our conversation...

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Why Rejection Trauma Haunts You emotion regulation emotional health Oct 30, 2024

What is Rejection Trauma?

Rejection trauma often stems from feeling rejected by significant figures early in life. This early rejection often shapes how we think about ourselves and influences future relationships. You may feel it directly as a fear of being rejected or you may feel it indirectly...

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Why Asking Your Spouse to Come Home Won’t Fix Your Family ask me anything relationship advice toxic relationships Oct 20, 2024

Hi Dr. Julie, I am currently separated and going through the divorce process. I don't want the divorce, but my husband's affair partner just moved in from Tennessee, and they've only been dating for five months. My boys are struggling with all of this and just want the family to stay...

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How to Be Confident If You’re Quiet: Embracing Introversion as Your Superpower ask me anything authenticity effective communication healthy relationships Oct 13, 2024

I received the following question from a community member:

Dear Dr. Julie, I feel inadequate most of the time. I graduated from high school in 1965. I've worked a variety of jobs, including 13 years with the federal government across three different agencies, and retired in 2002. I...

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Mastering Emotion Regulation: How to Stay Calm and In Control emotion regulation emotional health people pleasing self-improvement Oct 08, 2024

We’ve all been there—caught in a frustrating situation, feeling emotions bubbling up to the surface and not knowing how to handle them. Whether it’s road rage in traffic, a stressful conversation at work, or an argument with a loved one, emotions can sometimes take over, leaving...

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